Ashley Madison Review – From a Woman’s and Man’s Point of View

May 21, 2010 · Posted in Review · 4 Comments 

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With the increase in celebrity affairs, cheating on your partner is a topic that is getting ever more popular.  Most affairs in the past was done through escorts and co-workers, now, you can find a discreet partner as easily as you can on any dating site.  Think about that for a second, it’s just as easy to meet a single person looking as it is a married person looking. Hello 2010!

There are a thousand and one reasons why people cheat. The goal here isn’t the ethics involved, it’s finding out if these discreet dating sites are legit. After all, there is a lot more at stake for the discretionary seeking folks.

Presently, the biggest discreet dating site out there is Ashleymadison.com. Their tag line “Life is Short, Have an Affair” gets directly to the point of the site. The site went from a couple hundred thousand members 3 years ago to now 6 million plus members (As of May 20, 2010). Every 10 seconds, someone is joining Ashley Madison. These are mind boggling numbers, but the trend will only gather additional speed.

Ashley Madison reviews – so how legit is the site. Are there real women on this site?  Can you get an honest Ashley Madison review out there? Well, the only way to get a real review is from someone that has used the site. Not only have I used the site, but I have a close male cousin that uses it as well. Being a married women and looking for a discreet relationship is a topic you don’t speak publically about. And when you do, you only discuss with people going through the same thing as you. After all, the ones that truly understand the sensitive nature of the topic are ones that have as much to lose as you do.

Let’s get back to the AshleyMadison.com review. Now as a female it’s great, you never have to pay and men just keep sending you messages. I chatted with some, most of them I actually didn’t connect with (for one reason or another). The goal I found from a woman’s perspective is to find the common understanding. When you find a discreet partner that is mentally going through the same thing you are, it becomes easier to go deeper into the discreet relationship.

Now for a male’s review of Ashley Madison. My cousin Pete didn’t have any luck with Ashley Madison initially. He paid the $49 contacted a bunch of women, and nothing panned out. He then let some months pass, and decided to give it another shot. This time he paid $249 , but by paying that amount, he was guaranteed an affair. Figured he’s either meeting someone, or he’s getting his money back. Pete told me with a smile that he won’t be needing a refund since he met this amazing woman.

I know, part of me thinks it’s wrong to have this inner smile that we both found a discreet partner. But an Ashley Madison review wouldn’t be fair unless I mentioned the mental aspect. You really have to want an affair or a discreet relationship. If you’re not ready for the possible consequences that can occur (stds, pregnancy, your partner finding out), you might want to seriously reconsider.

Some Ashley Madison review tips:

  1. Go with the guarantee affair package. I know, you’re thinking $249 is a lot of money. It is , don’t get me wrong. You could just go get an atlantic city escort and pay more than that for just an hour or time, and run a high risk of getting an STD. Try hiding that from your partner, in additional the medical bills that come with that. Did you know the STD risk is virtually gone when you a discreet relationship with a married person
  2. Keep an open minded. An ashleymadison review wouldn’t be fair if I didn’t mention the level of mindset needed. You must, and I mean must, have an open mind. You will be communicating with people that have real issues with their relationships. Walking away or getting a divorce is not an option for many folks
  3. Third and final tip is don’t show your picture unless you already started communicating a while. Basically, you really don’t know who is on Ashley Madison. What if your partner is? Oh yea, that has definitely happened. So be smart, stay under the radar, and enjoy. After all, “Life is Short”.

I hoped you enjoyed this Ashley Madison review. If you ever thought Ashley Madison scam , this has hopefully swayed your mind a bit. Best of luck in your searches